As a nurture, as a mother, what we give our children is unconditional love.
This culture of them feeling like they can come to us with anything.
They need to be able to come to us with anything.
And that’s really about us working through our own stuff first so that we are not showing up wounded.
So that we are not shaming, blaming, guilting, our children.
So that we're not pushing our agenda of what we didn't have a chance to accomplish or live out in our life onto them.
EVERYBODY IS A KEEPER OF THE SELF.
I'm the keeper of myself.
My children are the keepers of themselves.
They have their own path to live.
They have their soul mission.
And I have mine.
I talk to them quite a bit and I show them what’s possible.
At the end of the day, it’s really making sure they know that you’ve got their back, and they can come to you with anything.
And it all goes back to me having my breathwork and meditation practice.
Because I have this practice, what it allows me to do is to not freak out and this is literally what my students say to me in my group programs.
Last time I was teaching the Stepping into Your Power program live, one of my students literally said to me “The practice is what allows me to not loose my s*** with my daughter. It allows me that Grace.”
Now the reason it does is because when we have a practice such as this, what it does is it creates space.
Space between yourself and other people.
Space between yourself and situations.
And that space is golden.
That space is what allows us to think clearly and act in a situation, and not react.
And I love being able to do that.
To have enough space to just really think about it, get clear on what needs to happen in the situation and be able to move from that place of centeredness.
And that is really how we nurture our children.
We nurture our children through LOVE from a place of CENTEREDNESS and GRACE.
Much love and aloha,
Dagmara