You know what the biggest indicator of whether you're good at math is?

Whether you believe you are!

Years ago, I read a book that mentioned a study (I think it was conducted in Toronto) that really stuck with me. The researchers found that the strongest predictor of whether someone was good at math wasn’t their grades or natural aptitude—it was whether they thought they were good at it.

That’s it. Belief.

The implication is powerful: if you believe you're capable, you're more likely to engage, try harder, stick with it when it's tough—and ultimately, actually be better at it.

And here’s the thing: the belief that you’re “not a math person” or “not good with numbers” is not just limiting—it’s a complete waste of time. It doesn’t move you forward. It doesn’t protect you. It just keeps you stuck.

This shows up all the time when it comes to money. So many people avoid engaging with their finances because they think they’re not good at it. But managing your money well has very little to do with being a human calculator—and everything to do with just showing up consistently.

That’s where regular money dates come in. Setting aside even 30 minutes once a week to review your numbers, check in with your goals, or simply acknowledge your progress can make a massive difference over time. You’re not trying to become a financial wizard overnight—you’re just building a relationship with your money.

Confidence comes from action, not from perfection. And it starts with letting go of the belief that you’re not “wired” for this.

You are. You just have to show up.

Check out my free MONEY DATE program here: MONEY DATE PROGRAM

xo, 

Dagmara